“Blessed is the one who is kind to the needy.” (Proverbs 14:21, NIV)

Every year at Christmas time, I watch Christmas movies as I prepare for the holiday. I usually watch White Christmas while I wrap presents. I watch A Muppet Christmas Carol as I eat cookies and drink coffee. There are so many others that I play while I bake cookies, make out shopping lists, decorate, or nap on the couch after a long shopping day. One that I enjoy watching with friends and family whenever possible is It’s a Wonderful Life.

It’s a Wonderful Life reminds me of the blessings we enjoy in our day to day lives. It causes me to reflect on my relationships. From it, I am reminded that living an honorable and right life right where I am blesses others and honors God.

I know I have written about this before. But something happened last night that reminded me yet again that I have a wonderful life. So I feel compelled to write again about the wonderful blessings of friendship, love and support.

Last night I was talking with Brittany, one of my co-workers. She is the sweetest girl who always has a kind word to say about everyone. Her positive energy is contagious. She exhibits genuine concern and compassion for those around her. She is a joy!

In the course of our conversation, she asked how I was doing. I told her I was a little stressed because some unexpected bills came up. I also complained that it was the most inopportune time with Christmas coming. I shared about the car repairs and a few other things.

I couldn’t believe what happened when I finished complaining. She said that she had money in the savings if I needed help. I almost started crying. Her kindness and generosity overwhelmed me. This young lady who goes to school and only works part-time right now was willing to help me out. I also know how hard she works for her money which made this gesture all the more astounding.

I was complaining mostly because it is inconvenient. It isn’t because I can’t afford it. These extra bills messed with my plans, they didn’t devastate me. And yet, here was someone that cared and has so much compassion that they were so concerned with my well being that they would sacrifice for my benefit.

I learned two things from this encounter. The first thing is that I am a big whiner, and I tend to focus on my problems rather than my blessings. Shame on me! In the light of God’s goodness and grace, this is a sin issue that I need to deal with immediately. Father forgive me.

And the second thing that I learned was that it is a wonderful life. I have friends and supporters, some I know, but there are many of whom I am unaware. I had no idea that Brittany cared that much. Just like George Bailey I again learned about the depth of my friendships in a time of need. I was also reminded that life is good, and I am loved. Thanks Brittany for your kindness and friendship. Thank you Lord for Brittany.